For myself and my kids, we were able to sing Christmas songs and have 'the Christmas play" at school/library. Not so much with my g-kids as things went south with the PC agenda.
It use to be more of a 'wonder time' I think. The birth of Christ was the 'theme' and not the Santa and gifts so much.
Gifts were a couple of things if you were one of the lucky ones and we made gifts to give, and baked cookies and made candy to exchange with family, friends and neighbors.
The people would go out in the streets and sing, and a 'flash mob' was unheard of.
Churches had programs and you went from church to church to enjoy the awesome story of the birth of our Savior and the music.
Now, Christmas is gaged by how much the retailers bring in, and the 'sellin' starts in the summer months with the Christmas decorations. Crazy to me.
I worked retail for years , and I don't enjoy the holidays now. Retail sales has taken the joy out of holidays for me.
I really don't care if I say Happy Chanuka or Merry Christmas and someone gets upset.
But this telling me I can't say them gets real old.
If by secular you mean not religious, I totally agree with you
I am not religious and will never be if I can help it
I hope we mean the same thing by "religious"
For the same reason I wouldn't lose sleep if I missed Chanuka, or Passover
It means something to me as a picture of spiritual things and as a tradition. But non of these things are holy!
Added later: As for christmas, Yeshua can be celebrated every day of our lives, not just once a year.
Many people don't have God in their every day life and so they would need these reminders such as christmas, chanuka, passover, shabbat etc...... Not a bad idea at all but again, they are not the essence of God, just reminders for those who need or want them
this I agree with 100%